Contemplation

This necessity remains evident, self-disclosure and all, however. Meanwhile, I have pulled myself out from the public surroundings and into more private ones. I had very much to think about lately, though, much I couldn’t think through with a clear mind, and so have decided to suppress internal thought with reading six-hundred-something pages of a hitchhikers guide to the galaxy.

Pulling out was not the problem, but rather a retreat, simply. Not only that I shifted my presence to one that’s to its own, but also did to what I thought and said. This was inevitable. Otherwise, I would think so obsessively of things I ought not to obsess, and say things that are going to be regretted either for being said or being heard. I didn’t know how to feel about things anymore.

I’m slowly pulling in now, very very slowly, though I still don’t know how to feel about things so far. Its very unsettling, to keep inside what one ought to let out. These things I ought to say are quite unsettling themselves. That is to say, if the sky told the earth of such things, the earth would feel so awkward it would fold inwards into itself. The sky, needless to say, would feel so awful about the whole thing and cave down into earth’s memory, never to be seen again.

The whole problem with awkwardness, which currently puts most my universal problems to effect, is a matter of diverted interests that are seldom willfully targeted toward everyone else but me. Although this is particularly one of my ever troubling matters (awkwardness that is), it is one that I favour to elaborate at a later time.

I apologize for the very few burdened souls that could, attempt, and willingly try to follow my line of thought.

It surely, and quite clearly now, at least to myself, has reached the point of necessity. It, is the same sort of self disclosure I was being preoccupied by for the past week or so. A necessity it is in the sense that I have to exercise to be able to chapter a day.

I took, or rather suddenly found, myself to the shore, believing I would find inspiration that would resonate along with chords I strummed and notes I picked. It was that time when the sun’s so awkwardly hinting its setting beyond and past the horizon. I stopped playing what I was playing, and this was because I felt I had a similar feeling some years ago.

I felt lost and not particularly bothered about it. I stared into space, shiftless, though looking for something within that particular void. I waited for something to happen, like I did that time a few years back when something did in fact happen, but nothing happened this time.

I had lost my loneliness. My loneliness that I shared with those who heard the trembling silience I held in my chest. I lost it somewhere along the way back to my old life. The life that I’m living now. When I had it, life spoke to me, the grass and the river and the trees and the air spoke to me. They were all boding a well and divine forthcoming presence.

She was wishfully and suddenly, then, at once, present, before my eyes. She filled the void I wandered about and wandered about me. She took steps towards me, she danced and never really walked. She spoke very lightly, sang for most of the time, and sat quietly infront of me. Most of our cherished conversations where when we said nothing at all. Life, around her, seemed to make way for a presence of uncommon grace. She played with daisies. She played with her long curly hair. She played and I played and she sang and I stopped playing.

That was a time when I still had my loneliness; when I was still lost. It was perfectly fine, for I was constantly lost and she constantly found me. I was always lonely and she always found herself company to me.

Now, though, I am surrounded by people. I am not seen or heard. I have not blushed in a while.

The sun has long set now and the sky’s a clumsey grey, hazey, and dusty, streching to the grey sea. For a moment I believed if I look up I’d find her before me. She wasn’t there. I took out the delicate remains of some years old daisies and washed them with tears of regret.

Some years ago I used to keep journals, paper journals, drawn out at the end of the day and then tucked away under a bed or a pillow or a cushion or any sort of bed related object, which always seem like the safest place for one’s forbidden and dark thoughts to be kept away it.

Instinctively, it served as a therapeutic exercise. ‘Has it come back now?’, I asked myself this morning. Admittedly, I for one am in need of self disclosure. It serves me right. However, keeping one online has always come with uncertainty to how I feel about it. ‘Am I uncomfortable with the fact that it is no longer inaccessible by anyone other than myself?’, I thought at first, but decided that it seemed ridiculous to think that most of my thoughts are more absurd than of anyone else’s. I don’t think they are, I know they are.

Online journals, anyway, feel listless. Paper (quoting a friend whom I’ve known for only one day), is alive. Starting sentences, commas, and fullstops meant a whole lot more, had a forceful effect, and the words made friends with the scribbles that lived near the edges. Packing a journal away, ink-curled pages wrapped themselves around me, contained my joy and my sadness and put me to peaceful sleep.

This, on the other hand, gets sort of out of one (hand, that is). I ended up with journal nostalgia when I had initially want to get some of the self disclosure that I was talking about done. This is really annoying because the matter is of obsession, and such matter ought to jump every other line of thought, and so brings me to a sense of self deception rather than disclosure.

Self disclosure: I would rather not have immersed myself into shallow rapids of a relationship hoping they would be deep enough, wouldn’t I? No, apparently, I willed not. One ought to know that the shallow rapids are dangerous, they swift you and they cause damage that is seldom repairable, yet knowingly, with the power of absurd silliness, I decided to have it. This has been widely regarded as not only absurd and silly but also as a really stupid thing to do. This opinion is more likely to be more accurate, I think. However, this is what obsession does, it gives you all, only momentarily, at once and in return of all of one’s other obsessions.

This one is tough, though. I need a stronger obsession to override it.

Hope revolves around one’s deranged irrationality. It spans along one’s day from sunrise to sunset, for there is little hope in the after hours and only much despair instead. Despair, on the other hand, revolves around everyone else’s deranged disillusion, for they all together fail to see one’s torments to ease.

Now,
It is to her.
His hopes are of many,
His despair is of hers.
And to him it is only,
Forever.

It was this of his, and hers as well, that drew them into each other’s lives; effortless conversations and thoughtful wishes were all they exchanged, each, in return of dreams they dreamt at night and day. These dreams they remained with for as long as their busy lives had space for. These dreams would then fade into their personal histories, tucked away, forbidden, even to themselves. These dreams, still, shape their daily lives, root their ambition, and hoist their fears.

Conversations were interrupted, thoughts were so as well, dreams are no more, and …

She speaks, and deafens my heart.

Rather, second first day at work. What a completely different experience it has been! My new work colleagues actually expected me to “produce” work on the first day, compared to my previous employers who had waited for 2 years until they decided to stop wondering what I was doing (which was virtually nothing). In fact, I’m not exactly sure they noticed that I’ve resigned and have not been in for a week now.

I can’t say I didn’t have my doubts. Being introduce to a little more than a dozen faces in under 5 minutes is not exactly doing me a fair introduction; I will have to embarrass myself several times now for having to ask for their names again, however, not one of them failed to return a smile and easy feeling that would go long enough to buy one another’s a cup of coffee.

Going back to university is absolutely awesome, though to work rather than study. Still, I never felt a stronger sense of belonging for any other environment. It even goes for when I’m in my lowest, that I would default to learning.

Those who congratulate me for my new appointment often miss the point and talk about how I took a decision to change careers. I didn’t change careers, I just started one. This is proving to be, understandably, confusing for the mass, since I’ve been of many skills. Some think I worked in IT, or teaching, or medicine, or in advertising, or in one or the other.

So there you go, this is as much as I’m ecstatic about my new job as, so much that I decided to pause the existential style of writing and adopt a dear-diary one. This, however, will not happen for a long time to come.

Silly Face: There’s been a good change in my life recently, well, that is rather will have been a good change in my life. Some of those who found themeselves around me found themselves cheery or indifferent or sadly full of envy. There are, though, still a numbered few, whom I ought to have shared the news with.

However, most I believe would rather hear the news before throwing arms around me, a couple are out of the country and would not appreciate the physical limitation of distance, and one whom I only manage to dial their number but never been able to push that damn ‘call’ button. Never mind the news, you’ll probably hear it from someone closer than I to you before you hear it from myself.

Lost Face:I sometimes pretend to be a complete idiot, so as to amuse myself. Sometimes I don’t need to pretend to be an idiot because I sometimes do what idiots do.

Perhaps you’d care to take the previous two sentences as an example, or perhaps you’d rather validate this idea by knowing that I have let myself, yet again, fall into an impossible situation of boy being meeting girl being under peculiar circumstances and complicated near futures whereby neither one of us can bring him/her self to a less complicated state of affairs.

Brave Face: Change, I recently sought in my recent daily life, and a shuffle and a cut I rather got. So, I find myself spliting and doubling and matching and only sometimes I risk it, only to find that almost often playing the wrong game.

Sometimes I get friendly players who let me off without a warning. Other times I don’t even get a warning.

Perfection dictates standards. To some, these words hum positively to their ears. They threaten life with limitations to others.

Only just now I have understood why I have not been able to succeed in certain things in life. At least, I have found insight into what I had perceived as a mental obstacle. I can’t remember exactly when, but one day, many years ago, someone somewhere planted in my wandering mind the hideous idea that “practice makes perfect”.

To someone whose life have been rocked high and low with dreams and ambitions and faint promises, the furthest thought I’d want to contemplate is accepting that optimal existence requires perfection; that things ought to be in a certain flawless way, without impurities, and simply, but most sophisticatedly, highly purposeful.

Fortunately, only to my recent realization, aided by a blues-note, I found that loosening up a bit is not such a bad idea. Perhaps I’ll continue living by numbers, only now I won’t be rounding them up and instead keep the fractions intact.

Practice ought to be fun, inspiring, and improving. It certainly ought not to make perfect.

Image and display are not entirely inherent properties of the form, or so lately it seem to me. Perfection, in a model, used to refer to flawless, logical, and harmonious attributes that limit limitations to none.

It was hard to see beauty construed within such a rigid mind frame. Beauty, and all other good things like peace and happiness and contentment and love, for that matter. I had seen them all before, but it was rare. However, whereby I took the lack and the imperfection and the unclarity as reasons to shy away without regard from what was brought upon me in life, now I take as a source of definition and identity and uniqueness.

I used to pay undivided attention to beauty.
Now I take my time.
I blink a little longer.

And I see something new.
Something good.
Something beautiful.